The ONE Newsletter | Why Consumers Buy & How You Can Sell to Them
Sent by Michael Opyd | 7.16.25
ONE LESSON
I had been helping a real estate website start-up when the representative I was working with asked if I wanted to help the owner of the startup buy a property for his kids, who were going to be attending a college in the city. The owner emailed me (I never bothered to set up a call) what he was looking for and told me to set up 5-6 places for them to view the following weekend. Knowing the owner was extremely successful, I wanted to go above and beyond for him to show how great of an agent I was. After setting up the showings, I sent him a long, incredibly detailed email with everything he would ever need to know about the properties and the area. Eagerly awaiting his response, I kept checking my email until finally I heard back from him. His response was just two letters…”OK.”
LESSON LEARNED: Get to know the type of person you are working with so you can sell them.
If I had taken the time to understand my client’s personality, I would have quickly realized he was not someone who had the time to read over a thousand-word email. He was someone who needed only the necessary information and nothing else. If I had known this, I wouldn’t have wasted 2 hours writing an email he was never going to read. Instead, I would have kept things simple and just told him the few details he needed to make a quick decision, i.e., price, appreciation potential, etc.
ONE TIP
Humans are inherently selfish. To sell to them, you need to appeal to what their needs are and not yours or your sellers (if you are selling a listing). Consumers don’t care about you (or your seller).
ONE QUOTE
Best-selling author and speaker Seth Godin on marketing:
”Our job is to connect to people, to interact with them in a way that leaves them better than we found them, more able to get where'd like to go.”
ONE QUESTION
What questions can you ask clients to appeal to their selfishness?
When you are speaking with your clients, the questions you ask should be directed towards understanding what the benefits are for them. For example, if a client says they are looking for an open floor, a simple follow-up question you can ask is “Why is that important to you?” But the key is not to stop there, it’s to go deeper. If they say something like “I like to entertain.” You need to ask them how entertaining makes them feel. Selfishness comes down to human needs; in this example, the need for connection.
Catch you next week!
Michael Opyd | Author of The Education of a Real Estate Agent
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